How Much Does Assisted Living Cost in 2025?

Ready for some elder care trivia? More than 20% of adult children list this as the single most difficult topic to discuss with their aging parent. 

Want a hint? It’s not the conversation about when to stop driving.

Ready for the answer? If you guessed “the need to move,” you got it right! For adult kids, this conversation is not unlike a trip to the dentist’s office; you know it needs to happen, but you’re so glad when it’s over. Or, maybe you’re more like me and decide to kick the can down the road–What’s that? Dr. Wisdom is overbooked, and you can’t get me in for a teeth cleaning for six more months?…No, it’s no problem. I understand. See you then…”

The thought of moving is not easy on seniors, either. For many, the idea brings up big emotions, like fear, anxiety, and sadness. 

What will it be like in an assisted living community?

Is this the loss of my independence?

Will I make friends?

This is the end of an era.

Of course, some seniors look forward to the possibility and are relieved when they think of the perks it might offer. Maintenance-free living? Great! An audience of new people who haven’t heard all my stories and jokes? Refreshing! Room, board, and activities all in one place that doesn’t require driving a car? I suppose I could get used to that!

One assisted living community in Los Angeles is rumored to offer fine dining options on campus, a heated outdoor swimming pool, and pet care assistance. What’s the monthly price tag on that, you ask? $10,000 per month.

Despite all these possibilities, making the decision to move to assisted living is rarely easy for families. However, no matter which side of the equation you’re on, you’ve come to the right place. If you’re curious about assisted living and wonder how it can fit into your future plans–and if it agrees with your bank account–be sure to read this article. We will discuss and provide answers to the following five questions:

1. How Much Does Assisted Living Cost?
2. What Are the Types of Assisted Living Facilities?
3. What Determines the Costs for Assisted Living Facilities? 
4. How Do Assisted Living Resident Agreements Work?
5. What Are the Payment Options for Assisted Living?

The short answer to this question, like many things in life, is the somewhat unsatisfying answer of “it depends.” But don’t worry–this article can and will give a better answer than that. After you read through each section that follows you will be equipped give yourself a fairly accurate estimate based on your own knowledge of where you live and what you or a loved one are looking for.

Here is what we know—the average cost of assisted living in 2024 in the United States was around $5,000 per month or $60,000 per year. Where a person lives makes a big difference in costs. The range of assisted living costs can be as much as $3,500 between the most and least expensive states, with urban locations tending to be more expensive than rural ones. Wyoming was the most affordable state for assisted living in 2024 with a median cost of $3,642 per month. Alabama, Mississippi, and Louisiana all had a median cost of less than $4,000. On the other end of the spectrum, New Jersey had the highest average monthly cost for assisted living in 2024 at $7,000, or $84,000 annually. That makes the annual average assisted living cost difference between Wyoming and New Jersey a whopping $24,000, which explains why some seniors actually choose to move out of state after they have digested the numbers!

Assisted living costs usually increase year over year, somewhere between 4% and 10%. Interestingly, the standard annual rent increase in the housing market overall is about 3 to 5%. If we use 5% as a projected increase to calculate the average monthly cost of assisted living for 2025 in the U.S., we arrive at an estimate of $5,250.

Depending on where you live, there can be many types of assisted living facilities, so we highly recommend you visit a few of each type. This will give you a sense of how a given community operates, its atmosphere and vibe, and the age and demographics of residents. Understanding a few common types of assisted living communities you may encounter might be helpful, so here is a quick overview.

1. Standalone or Traditional Assisted Living. These communities are often paired with an independent living building or wing, but not always. Like every type of assisted living community on this list, these communities have care associates that can help with Activities of Daily Living (ADLs). ADLs include bathing, showering, dressing, toileting, transfers or assistance moving, and feeding. They will typically have some kind of nursing oversight, though state licensure will dictate the level of oversight (Registered Nurses, Licensed Practical Nurses [LPNs], or Certified Nursing Assistants [CNAs]). Because there is nursing oversight, medication management is offered.

2. Continuing Care Community. These communities are large campuses that include independent living, assisted living, skilled nursing, and often a memory care unit, wing, or program. While these communities are often more expensive than a standalone assisted living, they offer seniors flexibility and familiarity should they have a health episode. Seniors in these communities can move relatively easily from care setting to care setting. For example, if someone has a fall they might need to recover in skilled nursing for a few nights before returning to their assisted living apartment. Or perhaps a resident in independent living needs surgery–after a hospital stay, they can return to skilled nursing or, in some cases, to a temporary assisted living apartment with more support than their independent living setup. A continuing care community arrangement provides more options and levels of care, familiarity, and makes it easier for friends and family to visit. For spouses that live together but don’t drive, it allows access to each other during recovery without needing transportation.

3. Memory Care. Because many states apply assisted living regulations to memory care units, they are often considered a type of assisted living. These communities are designed for those diagnosed with Alzheimer’s or dementia. Everything from the design of the building to the staff that are hired is done with a purpose and focus of supporting those with significant cognitive impairment. Layouts are often circular and continuous so residents can walk without feeling trapped. Dementia-friendly sensory activities are readily available, including those related to music and art. Staff are much more likely to have received training in Alzheimer’s and dementia care. For these reasons, a standalone memory care community can be more expensive than a traditional assisted living facility.

4. Residential or Group Home. The three previous assisted living settings mentioned in this article will likely have as many as 40 residents or more.Residential and group home assisted living can be much smaller, with as few as 6 to 8 residents. These are often found in residential, suburban communities inside single-family homes. Chances are good there are several in your area, but you may not have noticed them because they are usually not marked with a big sign out front. Ranch-style layouts work the best so there are no stairs that residents need to navigate. Residential assisted living homes have usually been adapted to better suit seniors, from grab bars to widened doorways or exit-seeking deterrents for those with cognitive impairment.

If you’re reading this article, chances are good this is not your first rodeo when it comes to the buying process. And good news–everything you’ve done so far to this point in your life can help you make this decision. The better you know yourself and your needs, or the needs of a loved one, the easier it will be. Here are four factors that can impact the price of assisted living.

1. Room type and size. How do you feel about having a roommate? Couples often benefit from shared savings on rent; the average cost of assisted living for a couple in 2024 was around $6,400 per month, just $1,400 over the average monthly cost of assisted living for an individual. If you don’t have a spouse but are comfortable living with a roommate, you will likely pay less than for a private room. Similar to apartment living, the size of your room and the amenities will influence how much you pay. Some assisted living rooms feel like you are in a five-star hotel, and others might be a little more reminiscent of a college dorm room, though most states have regulations around minimum square footage per resident.

2. Level of Care. Assisted living communities handle this differently, so it is something you should ask about. The care provided in some communities is all-inclusive; others might charge you each time you need help tying your shoes. A nurse typically assesses a person’s level of care at the time of move-in, but this can change, usually through a care conference or conversation with facility staff. It’s a good idea to watch the level of care line item on your monthly statement, as this can be a price-driver for assisted living. In general, the more help a person needs, the higher the monthly bill.

3. Staff-to-Resident Ratios. Some states regulate this more than others, so it is worth asking the facility about their policy and finding out what the licensure requirement is for your state. Unlike skilled nursing or hospital settings, most assisted living facilities do not have a regulation around call button wait times. If you ever bought a house you might have been given the advice to walk the neighborhood and talk to your potential new neighbors. This is still good advice when it comes to finding the right assisted living for you or a loved one. Find out if people are satisfied with the number of staff in the community and the quality of care they or their parent is receiving. Care associates also leave clues. Are they rushing from resident to resident? Do they look overworked and understaffed? How long have they worked there? 

4. Location. How much assisted living costs correlates to its location. If the cost of living in your area is expensive, assisted living facilities costs are likely to follow suit. Staff, food, building and landscape maintenance, and housekeeping are all examples of expenses an assisted living facility must manage.

Resident agreements cover many aspects, including care, food, accommodations, and more. Expect these agreements to vary significantly by type of assisted living community. Once you’ve identified your favorite assisted living communities, it is a good idea and a reasonable request to ask for a copy of the resident agreement. Take some time reviewing it; some people even have an elder law attorney review it with them. 

Contracts or agreements might be all-inclusive or they may separate costs by area. They might require a buy-in fee or have nuances around the termination process. What happens if you or a loved one needs care that the assisted living community is not equipped to provide? These aspects can influence the actual assisted living costs for a person and like anything else, unexpected costs are something we all want to avoid. Another reason to review the resident agreement is that you might change your mind. Being locked into a month-to-month arrangement might feel better than making a year-long commitment, especially in the beginning. 

Because average assisted living costs for 2025 are around $5,250 per month, you will want to explore all your payment options. Private pay funds are the most common payment method, with an estimated 80 to 90% of residents in assisted living paying out of pocket. Long-term care insurance will cover assisted living costs, often through reimbursement, though only a small percentage of the population has a long-term care insurance policy (around 10%). 

Medicaid can help cover assisted living costs, though usually not for room and board. Many states have a Medicaid waiver, often called Home and Community-Based Services (HCBS), that will help cover costs related to ADLs. Veterans may be eligible for financial assistance through the Aid and Attendance Program, or the Veteran Directed Care Program.

As you can see, there is a lot to digest when understanding how much assisted living costs. Some of the factors contributing to assisted living costs are in our control (such as the amenities we want), and some aren’t (our health, for example). Remember that choosing the right assisted living facility for you or a loved one, while an important decision, is not an irreversible one. If you find that you’ve chosen the wrong community for you, don’t be afraid to make a change. After all, should that come to pass, you’ll be even more of an expert on the costs of assisted living facilities than you are right now. Maybe you’ll even decide to write your own article about it!

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